I once heard from Rabbi Kesselman, if you want to understand the truth, flip what we see naturally upside down

This is really accurate, because Kabbalistickly the lower something is, the higher it comes from

In other words, for example, most of us see our souls as the ultimate, but it is our bodies

God didn’t create the world for our souls, he has trillions of souls and angels, G-d created the world for us mortals down here, so we could have the great pleasure of continuously transforming darkness into light

Similarly in relationships – no one take offence, I am writing this for the positive outcome – the fact is, long held is the belief, that women are second class to men (though the laws of society have changed, the attitudes somewhat linger, and that’s where there has been change; imagine where there hasn’t been!) but the fact is, women are the protectors of men.

In truth, men without women, is like a dog without its owner.