I need to credit Mosheh Madalie via Rabbi Kesselman via the Rebbe Rashab via Kabbalah, via our Creator) who made me realize an extraordinary profound concept: for you see, Kabbalistickly we are taught that prior to (Seder Hishtalshulus – the primordial spiritual universe that sequentially precedes and makes ours) was the universe of Tohu, characterized by much light, but without the capacity to hold the light – however I realized this metaphor works actually in each and everyone’s life – for in the beginning, we are like the world of Tohu – we are born with tremendous passion – however as we see, like a raging fire, it simply is attracted to anything and everything! – we are easily vexed and insulted – but then we grow up