I knew a Rabbi from the old country, his wife was worse than a shrew, her greatest pleasure was shaming him in public – and yet he happily said that she is my "Zivug", which means "my intended" – being American, and believing in real love, I thought that he was old fashioned…, but as I look at his life, and he maintained his relationship, no matter how hard it was, and mine, in which I got divorced because I was sick and tired of it, obviously his perspective, and this of course applies to the over 50% that are getting divorced, was right