I just realized a wondrous amazing thing – you see, we all try to "become me" – but the question of-course is who is "me"?? – in fact, this the first command to a spiritual seeker (Abraham) "Go from your imagined self" (for our self is the accumulation of the identity we pick up – "country" (which is why people will die for it) "family" (which is why people will die for their loved ones) and worst of all "habits" ("it’s who I am")