I heard from Rabbi Jacobson that God desires e pluribus unum, in other words it is the desire of our mutual father that all his children get along, now we notice an interesting phenomena that children naturally seek friendships whereas adults naturally seek honor, now we also note that every adult was a child – so what happened? The answer is that there was a time when a child sought honor, namely the terrible twos, for within us is multiple drives, there is the drive for honor, the drive for friendship, but these two drives are mutually exclusive, so one driver comes at the expense of the other; hence when the child receives thier needs but in thier mind they are “getting their way!” they become delusional and imagine that they are entitled to always get their way! which is why they throw tantrums when they don’t, however properly mollified they now don’t expect to get their way, hence thier drive for friendship kicks in, however adults too can regress, so when narcissism – ego (for whatever reason) returns, they will now desire once again – nay expect! to get thier way! and as anger is frustration over dashed entitlement/expectation hence they become truly evil
By zevi770 · June 2, 2016