I haven’t really thought this through properly, but tell me what you think please
By zevi770 · February 7, 2014
I read once on the internet, that there are two kinds of mechanism people use to live life
1. is trying to figure out the whole puzzle before you start it
2. the other is, you take it as it comes
It seems to me that these are really the male / female mechanism
The male (generally) is, a take it as it comes attitude, for men live very much in fantasy worlds, so as they are not afraid, they feel everything is fine; so why waste precious brain space on figuring the details out in advance
Women live much more in fear (due to their brain structure which sees more details) hence fear causes a desire to not trip up, hence the need to think all of the details to not trip up
But I think there is a third way
Not the fantasy, nor the scary minefield thinking
Rather, to, on one hand, realize, details must be attended to, but not to feel you must have all the details in place; rather, with God’s help you will be able to conquer all the bridges as they come!