I have recently developed a theory – sorry bad habit – that I believe, well, solves (not to be arrogant) but a greater amount of human understanding, ever – Kabbalah teaches us, “Three gpss drive man” – “our mind (intellectual decisions) our hearts (emotional decisions, mainly the desire for pleasure (love) and fear of pain/shame (fear) (and their offshoots) and unfortunately ego, the desire for fame and anger over being lower/ed” (with its side effect, jealousy) The thing is, as we all have these three things, why are some people megalomaniacs, or narcissists, others not? some people filled with fear, others not? some people passionate, others not? some people in control of themselves and their mind runs them, others not? – I think (nonwithstanding certain innate predilections –see chapter six, Kabbalah Love) it also depends, like the parable: an Indian said to a man, there are two wolves in your heart, one, for all that is wise and kind, the other, for all that is foolish and cruel – Oh’ chief, but how will the good one overcome?! – It’s simple, replied the Wiseman: the one you feed, grows