I have a friend, Norman Frank who once told me that it’s all about expectations – "for example, if you received a cup of coffee from a Nazi…" as I personally heard from one of the youngest survivors, Rabbi Mangel, that he was on the death-march and a Nazi came and gave him from his flask of coffee, and supported him – and he said, that would be exactly as Elijah the Prophet Himself… – however say your own father or mother did NOT give you a cup of coffee…😝 so you see, that when we realign our brain to understand that this universe does NOT belong to us! it is a Gift🎁