I have a friend, a the great psychiatrist, and he discusses the debate among psychiatrists, for it’s well known that perfect parents that do everything right, actually don’t create resilient children – part of the problem of the world today, or at least in part of the wonderful blessed Western safe Democratic societies, is people don’t really have strength of resilience to deal with difficulty – so the question is, do parents have to become a little abusive?! so the wise Dr. says, that worry not, life will already find its way to be cruel; and the reason, I am saying this, is because there is zero need to engage in the media – Engage In Positivity!, the negative is always trying to reach you