I hate to have to be the one to say it but hey someone has to and the message is so so vital! and that is – all these perhaps well intentioned, let’s call them radical social transformative agendas, be it feminism, civil rights Etc. are fundamentally not going to succeed in their own stated objective- for what the world needs more of is RESPECT- not the denigration of the person you feel is your enemy… – and if there is a group – which of-course rightfully so – is demanding respect, because of historical abuse or negative perceptions – the only way to get the people you want to perceive you in a good way… is first of all to be RESPECTFUL – second of all to respectfully, educate the people you are trying to change, on the importance of RESPECT