I hate to be the bearer of bad news but every living person, will have one of three dispositions – the first is if God-forbid neglected, as seen in Russian orphanages – no-love for self (the love of self is born with the notion that, "I can feed myself" – the baby who cries assumes that it was their cries, not their mother’s mercy that got them what they wanted – this is why by the time we are two we actually get angry if we don’t get what we want) However once we are two, the fun begins, because either then we develop humility, in which case we understand that we are not entitled, and as the Rebbe Rashab says, God will cause all people to become humble, or we become delusional –