I finally figured it out – I am so so happy – it has taken me literally decades to understand the most bizarre phenomena – it goes like this – hate – jealousy, which causes all the stupid wars both big and small – you see when people are humble wars, fighting is simply stupid – so why would people hate? – the answer is ego – but if I hate you, I obviously believe that my hate is justified – so what is going on? – you see, hate is an emotion – it can only be based on feeling that you harmed me – in fact, it is the opposite of love, which is you are either (like) me, or a benefit to me (which is liking certain people, food etc. ) however, what if you stole a thousand dollars – well, I wouldn’t hate you – what if you stole a thousand dollars from me?! – well I would – Now what if I believe that I am the best! – and then I see a. that you are, or . b that you are perceived by others – you see, this is why the fat man in North Korea hates – in his delusion of grandeur (which obviously comes from being the "best" in his country, and this delusion fills the space in the soul) hence he cannot handle anyone – including America being better – it is exactly like the wicked queen