I figured it out – there is so much language surrounding Kabbalistic terminology- you see language obscures as it reveals – but if you hit the lingo that resonates – not that we need to translate and then deduce… – it well sums it all up – in very very very very very simple language which is: in us is the desire to accumulate, conversely we also have the desire to assist the less fortunate – these two desires are mutually exclusive, until we realize that in order to assist we must accumulate