I fear that what drives many people is not a positive desire, not even a selfish positive desire, rather simply a deep seated shame – having been bullied into believing their "negativity" "evil" shame – which of-course isn’t true, for either all people are evil or no one is, and if no one is, it only means we need to choose to be good and not evil – hence, wishing for society to see them positively, engage literally in acts of pretense – having living in south africa, a community afflicted by this false sense of shame, from Lithuania styled outrageous parenting techniques, in which shame is used as the punishment of choice – complete phobia of people, hence a deep rooted hate (for we hate what we fear hence a maliciousness for we seek to destroy what we hate) sets in