I am not sure how or why it happened but this wall fell down and as I walked over it, it reminded of the Rebbe’s saying, that the walls of Golus (encircling our souls) will fall down – and I realized something profound – man’s search for God most often leads him obviously towards God, but imagine this, if a person searched his whole life for his lost son – now when he finds his son, if he treats his son like a father, say expecting his son to be the giver of love, support etc. and not the reverse; then the relationship won’t work!