How we get screwed up, and what to do

There are a million and one psychological theories – as one psychiatrist told me that among psychiatrists they say, “The brain is a black box” – meaning they have no idea.

 

But like medicine, we may not know how it works, but it matters not.

 

You see the same is with psychology – for example, studies into every single psychological field – with all their brilliant ideas… show that none of them matter –

 

For the only thing that heals people, is love (practically, when the psychologist, but it could be you or anyone, feels empathy; which makes the person feel valued, hence gives them a sense of self-value.)

 

And if it’s love that heals people, is it not hate that hurts them.

 

So the next time you see someone – especially someone who is hating, just remember this is a person who really really really needs love.