How to have a life filled with happiness
By zevi770 · August 13, 2013
What makes us happy – unity!
Like the blending of colors in a kaleidoscope, the harmonization of differences into unity – a collage of notes creating a symphonic bang, a melody of highs and lows, it is friendship that warms the heart!
Now this is why we love, however often our hearts were abused, hence we fear to let go, to break our sensitivity, so we store our humanity somewhere safe, like our diamond behind a vault, often unpenitrable but to the greatest Rebbe himself!
But ultimately, how to be happy, boils down to this simple simple equation.
We need a science which can both protect and project, like a flapping door, both allows in those whom you love and expels negativity, protecting the organism from harm.
Ultimately, the mechanism to do this is to reset our entire modus-operandi.
For when we love for OUR sake, we get easily upset when love goes awry!
But if we see ourselves primarily as God’s agent TO love, we become invincible givers, without the capacity to fall – immortal lovers – for if the agenda is on giving, the lack of getting, doesn’t affect us one bit!