History shows, that we can either love (which is sweet but as its an emotion, as the saying “love is blind” (for as we seek – or the emotion seeks its existence, it subconsciously eliminates anything that would prevent it) or God-forbid we can hate (this comes from fear, anxiety – so as one psychologist who spent his life studying fear said, we can fear things (say tornado…) or people; so when people-fear sets in, this causes not only fear but also resentment (for we resent whatever causes us pain, and resentment turns to hate – not to mention, as we have jealousy, we then become jealous over people who don’t feel fear, hence terrorism, bullying, antisemitism etc.) finally we can be discern (when we realize: life is a Divine destiny (by overcoming challenges, and obeying a Higher power.)