here is why – why things that are so simple seem so complex – remember the first time you tried a computer – looked hard… – but once you get the hang of it – you see there is a dual reality – on one hand there is one very – perhaps even primary side in us that has a single goal: Yes; Pleasure! No; pain! (this is how every animal works (it’s instincts will create pleasure / pain stimulation and the rest is biological reactions) then there is another part of us that says Yes; Kindness! No; Maliciousness! – the thing is these two misfire