Have you ever received from someone that wonderful feeling of real attention – your heart is filled with a warmth – then suddenly the person becomes angry – you have been victimized – The affection was a scam – that person having no internal identity (long ago having it been crushed through possibly a parents or someones shame) developed a polished exterior – like a clever animal (commonly called psychopath) s/he is able to pretend – however his/her only reason for liking you, was there was something to be gained – but as they don’t like themselves – once their animal gains whatever it sought well why not go for pleasure number 2