Haadam hu midini, man is a social creature
By zevi770 · February 21, 2012
This single statement of Jewish fact can truly explain all human behavior.
Imagine that nothing would be more important to all men then a single woman.
Not to be sexual, but to use an idea people can relate to.
Imagine the wars to be fought.
The blood to be shed.
The joy and victory to be claimed.
That woman – victory – is actually relationships.
Humans are by nature social creatures our sages teach us.
So we begin life hopefully in the loving warmth of a mother and fathers love.
This sets the tone for this need fulfilled and hence with friend’s one can trust.
Studies found with orphanages where children were not loved, they lacked all social ability.
And then the fun begins.
For a relationship is sweet and sour.
Sweet when it meets your needs, sour when it doesn’t.
So what is the essence of this simple equation that can explain all human behavior.
Ah!?
Ready for this one?!
Its called, what happens to the person who gets left out of the game?
How does he feel?
Imagine there is but one woman, sure, nice to be the victor, but how would the losers feel???
Rage, jealousy, revenge?
And hence in this simple equation we both see the joys, but also the rage, jealousy and revenge of those people whose societies or perhaps parents or perhaps peers ostracized them from the circle of love, explaining all malevolent behavior.