Good morning – generally we either are safe, so we see the world "all is good" or we’re feeling unsafe, so we see the world as a dark evil place (now subconsciously we also become jealous – for we resent "why should you have it happy, while I’m in misery" – now this jealousy cuases us to lash out – we think we’re standing up for justice but really we’re actually bullying) finally in life what we actually have to do is a. Whatever we can b. What we can’t, we have to trust is actually a plan of God to help us