Generally there are three possibilities (three general positions) 1. (based usually on a remarkable sense of safety) Love 2. (based on usually a sense of either physical or emotional insecurity… hence defensiveness… hence narcissism… hence ego… hence sensing that the other takes what is rightfully yours…) Antagonism (this is seen in anti-semitism, anti-American, and unfortunately the numerous anti …. (Muslim-hate…. – not to paint all Muslims with this brush, but this hate usually comes from the Clerics – who have this narcissism – hence can’t handle not being the "supreme-leader…") and then for the greatest of souls – Simple Concern Care Compassion