Generally speaking a person must be balanced

Now the only balance that exists is obviously not listening to people (who themselves are out of balance or as commonly referred to unbalanced – and just because they are normal, which means following the norms of their society, but all societies themselves ar unbalanced as we see clearly from the too much freedom in democratic societies (hence children growing up without any direction) and too much evil in totalitarian societies) rather listening to God, for God grants us both freedom and responsibility