fascinating – you see – following the last blog – I’ve figured it all out (never said that before : ) you see, we are a self-expansion – when we are born, we are really (in our own self-image ) nothing – as our desires get fulfilled – we seem to ourselves, very capable (this is why two-year-olds, throw tantrums; as they cannot handle the loss of prestige) however, as the Rebbe teaches, we have to be able to accommodate dual personas – to God we must be like a servant before a master – and to others – well depending (for example, to a parent, as God tells us, we must honor and love – to a spouse of-course the same – to a child, love and discipline – to an enemy, powerful; and if necessary attack – our greatest conundrum is, when we have either say, a soft or harsh – when in fact to each, we must be)