Far more than a rapist rapes, he rapes his own soul – in other words, by nature we are kind- rape in truth is just another form of cruelty (as a psychologist told me "rape is never about sex") hence when we God forbid gets "raped" / demeaned, what happens is that our anger is aroused (as it wasn’t fair- which was the whole point of the raper) and when we are angry we need to make things fair, so now we set on a path of vengeance, but as we often don’t succeed, we are left only with anger- then get jealous of people who are not- so we begin to rape