Everything you need to know – you are a composite of three factors – the deepest part of who you are, is God, the conscious part of who you are, is the impulses, as well as conscious truth seeking desire, including the natural human compassionate gene, that penetrate your mind; but finally, unfortunately our construct of who we are, is rooted in our identity, which is rooted in our ego’s desire for grandeur, which is the assimilation of any sort of notion that adds to our grandeur, hence as children, we assume that we are like our parent (closest to our gender) we assume identities of our role models (or whomever is seen as a role model at large) and these identities, must be shed, in order to allow our true self, God, goodness and compassion to become our conscious self!