Everything is to the extent – To the extent you are addicted to one thing is the extent you are less to another – To the extent you fear criticism is the extent you are not yourself – To the extent you hate / are angry is the extent you are sadistic – To the extent that you are humble (don’t think highly of yourself) is the extent you are kind – To the extent you have self-discipline is the extent that you have self-control – To the extent that you love is the extent you shall sacrifice – To the extent you feel secure is the extent you don’t feel afraid etc. etc.