Everyone has an agenda – when someone speaks to you there are usually three possibilities – the first, if they are humble, it’s they see you as being superior (there is a natural feeling that others are superior – at least perhaps adults) so they consider it an honor (if you are their peer, similarly, though on a more peerish mentality) if they are arrogant, they either wish to use or preferably abuse (hence a false sense of egoism – the bully stance) if they are not humble nor arrogant, they are truthful