Eureka, you know that feeling when you’re so happy you could run naked shouting “eureka,” well that’s not the feeling I have, rather, “Eureka, the following mechanism will save your and whoever tries it, marriage!”

It goes like this – you see, as the Rebbe teaches, marriage is about “give and take;” the problem (my words) with most marriages today, it’s about “you give, I take!” born into prosperity, we don’t understand comprises!

But the following is a simple mechanism which can work, and remember, don’t throw out a pill because it didn’t cost you a million dollars, for it’s being given to you with love, which is worth infinitely more than money buys!

Once a week, maybe Sunday when you’re a bit relaxed, sit down with your spouse – no interruptions – make a list of all the issues you have and all the issues she has, very normal, for we both have hopes and fears; now, here’s the simplest compromise mechanism! “give and take” – you get fifty percent of what you want and she gets fifty percent of what she wants, and I guarantee, you’ll live happily ever after!! Sent via my BlackBerry from Vodacom – let your email find you!