Either another loves you or they don’t – if they love you great – if they don’t – either they don’t know you or they are depressed – if they don’t know you that’s o.k. – if they are depressed – either they loath themselves (shame / depression) or not only do they loath themselves, they are angry that no one helped them (for we can either loath ourselves based on on self-expectations that were unfulfilled or based on false expectations that others made us feel hence the resentment) now if they just loath themselves – sad but not too bad – but if they are jealous, angry and hate, well what would you care about such a sick person