Creation of identity/self: we begin in God; as we descend through the spiritual worlds and into a body we formed a sense of Independence, so God seems beyond us and we seem to be "us;" as we’re born into this world and become dependent, we then form a selfish identity – as our ego is broken, for our Tantrums at 2 don’t get us what we want, we realize that we are dependent on the adult world -we then identify with our same-sex parent (boys to fathers, girls to mothers) and we wish to become them so we can be as powerful and independent; as we grow up, we once again delude ourselves into Independence, and then God breaks us and we realize that once again we are dependent, and we begin to return to our original Self