Context

As Einstein’s theory of relativity was explained “One hair on a head is too little, but in a soup, too much!”

Understanding “too little and too much” is well the most – in fact perhaps only – equation we need to understand.

For everything God made has a purpose.

But too much money can make someone insane, too little, die of starvation (God-forbid.)

Too much ego, retarded; no self-esteem meek

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Understanding the ratios – and the knowledge: we can influence our heart to accept as Raabi Bachayeh (the author of the incredible wise classic “Duties of the Heart” writes, in the introduction) that masters of the Talmud having mastered the Jewish ethical system (which isn’t that hard) spent all their time adjusting their hearts.

Firstly to adjust one’s heart, like to adjust the sound, you have to have access to the dial- many of us (certainly I was) are completely unaware of our emotional reality – we think we are thinking, while unbeknown to us, we are actually simply being emotional – our thoughts are our emotions (in words.)

To access the heart – to be perfectly honest, I think woman generally have better internal awareness than men – one must ask God for help.

I recall as yesterday, when God opened up this window.

Suddenly – and prior it didn’t exist – I was able to see what I was feeling – this ability to perceive my emotions is critical, as you cannot change a dial which you don’t see – it is like turning down music you don’t hear – However what developed was almost a new language – for based on this perception – and yes, there are many alternative perceptions non-related to the usual five senses (dolphins have sonograms, there are people with eps etc.) so by having a visual, Thank God, with time, I have learnt how to also gain control of the volume dial.

So here are the ratios:

Lets begin with a simple 1-10

1 is barley audible, ten is really loud

anger – 1

ego – 1

shame – 1

hate – 1

love 8

faith 10!