confuse never those who do things because they are trying to make you think they are not shameful with those who do things because they choose – for the former don’t wish to do what they are doing (it is like someone wearing a beautiful cast – which makes them resent life, and the fact that others think they are shameful – for we create a paradigm of how "others" think about us (for everyone outside of us is the "other") and as mentioned, resentment leads to anger / jealousy, hate and tyranny)