Bridging the gender gap!

Men and women, hero and recipient – however, it seems, we somehow miscommunicate; for every man loves being a woman’s hero and every woman wants a man to be a hero for her – so where does it fail?! – as in all relationships, where the dynamic is, giver and recipient, there is a fundamental “flaw” in the relationship, for the giver is happy to give, but he doesn’t feel the need to OFFER his help, for he feels his help is ready, waiting, on standby; the receiver on the other hand, as she needs the help so badly, cannot afford to hear, no; for if she doesn’t receive the forthcoming help (in fact studies show that Post-Natal-Depression comes primarily from women who cannot ask for help, and didn’t receive it when they were in need, and hence, have now come up with the belief that their husband will never help them….!) in other words IT IS THE WISDOM, UNDERSTANDING, AND KNOWLEDGE, THAT THE GIVER MUST HAVE, TO OFFER HELP; THAT WILL BRIDGE THIS SIMPLE GAP!

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