boy oy boy you are such a boy! – i married you, to help you! – if only men could fathom this simplest of truths (the reason we can’t, is a. being slightly egotistical we would never do that, hence we can’t imagine why someone would; b. we fail to appreciate to paraphrase "though you may think you’re a nothing, doesn’t mean, that another, doesn’t think you have infinite potential.")