Beginning Middle and End of the Male / Female Dynamic
By zevi770 · January 4, 2015
Behind pretty much all of reality is this dynamic.
Books upon books can be written…
But there is a single lesson which teaches us everything we need to know about life!
O.k. this won’t sound feministic, but neither am I a feminist, nor has feminism done much good for feminists.
The truth is as follows:
All people seek honor.
When Henry Kissinger was asked to explain the bizarre phenomena of why in America, he (a not-so-good looking immigrant, with a heavy German accent) was chosen by women as the man they would most like to date – he explained, “power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.”
In simple words, just like men would like to hang with men, they deem honorable, so to, women.
But that’s the easy part.
The sad reality is, we have a 50% percent rate of divorce of first marriages, 67% of second and 74% of third marriages, and the question of how many men and women are in unhappy marriages, would easily mean on a conservative estimate, that the majority of male / female unions are not working.
So the question obviously, is, why?
The answer is actually fundamentally very simple:
If the female to male attraction is based on the notion that it is an honor to be with them, then conversely, the missing link, is the male to female relationship.
For example, if I assumed it would be a honor to work for the President and gave up pretty much my family, work etc. all to be near (and dear) to him, then every moment of affection, priceless; but conversely, every feeling that I mean nothing to him, excruciating!