Before we dismiss those people who seem overly intense (even Trump) we must realize three things – the first is if you have no intensity you are delusional (you think there are no problems) if you are over-tense, you have anxiety, however this will go in one of two ways – the first is a hatred, for as we have a natural jealousy hence when people are overly anxious they begin to become jealous of non-anxious people (this is the true reason behind antisemitism, bullies, terrorists – those whose own lives as Freud referred to them (accurately) "are miserable (hence bastards") become jealous of those who have inner-happiness) but then there is what has now been discovered not as post traumatic stress disorder but as post traumatic GROWTH (for once we can calm down, we are as Sherri Mandel whose son Kobi was stoned to death by the savage Arabs, said, "you cannot become naive again but you can become something new" – "I used to be basically into my self" now she does tremendous charity work – yes, in this world no one is perfect – God looks only at our balance!