As Kabbalah, teaches we are all in one of three attitudes – the first is love, which may seem selfless but is actually quite self satisfying and hence remarkably selfish – the second is Justice, which may seem right, but is remarkably related to vengeance and hence quite selfish – and the only correct path is to humble ourselves to both the wisdom of God and his servant the Rebbe, who instructs us to always consult our mashpia