As Kabbalah and the east clarify, each and everyone of us have simultaneously 3 operating systems – which are from lowest to highest, the ego, the need to feel great, even superior, and the tremendous emotional pain of feeling low and lower than others – which also creates what’s called narcissistic disorder, based on narcissistic wounding, which is a fancy way of saying we begin to delusionally imagine we are awesome, because it allows us to overcome the fear of criticism and shame – we also have the heart, which has emotions, and all the emotions boil down to, that which makes me feel good versus that which makes me feel bad – in us is also the emotion of compassion, however compassion has to contend – like a soup, that each flavor is obviously affected by every other flavor – with the other emotions – hence the person in lust or in fear – is not able to feel compassion,, ultimately the highest part of the human, where God resides within us – is within our mind, which has the ability to see objective truth