Are you in war – with a ghost – this morning I realized that in truth you are fighting a ghost. In other words, either a person is normal, so they are based in reality, or a person is simply delusional (now anyone who had a healthy mother develops a self-love, hence when you speak to them, they are normal, but someone whose mother is evil, and actively rapes the self-esteem (this of-course comes from jealousy which is a revolving wheel, generation to generation) then the child has to develop a protective identity) this delusional identity (protective)