Are you assertive – stand up for your rights? – aggressive – put others down, ostensibly becomes they deserve it, but really psychologically, because you have unresolved resentments, hence as we don’t allow or like to feel inferior, stepping on others through aggression (making them feel bad about themselves,) helps reduce your inferiority complex? – or passive, ostensibly sweet, but in actual fact afraid of rejection, hence you acquiesce too all people’s demands? or passive aggressive – ostensibly sweet, but harbor a grudge when people offend you, but as you are afraid of confrontation, what you do is get them back in a way that they cannot realize it was your anger, so basically it is aggressive, but not open aggression, rather hidden aggression?