Always assume three things – reality being a creation and promise (as it says in the Bible after the flood God promised to never destroy earth, hence its continuation and of-course its primary purpose us is absolute) b. life will never be the same – for in order to grow we must always leave what it is, which is often traumatic, for we get accustomed to our comfort level, to become something new – c. just as you wish not for anyone to be your judge, no-one wishes for you to be theirs, and just as you wish for unconditional-love, compassion, concern from others, do they wish from you! – the only exception to this rule is that we only wish for love, compassion, concern, from those we hold in esteem; hence, when a person becomes arrogant (which can result from being praised too much – or having low self-esteem, hence the ego creates delusions of grandeur which to that person seems valid or like in the case of Amelek an innate sense of grandeur) then the person doesn’t care what you think about them – for example, imagine the CEO of the company – he could care less what the janitor thinks of him – so those who can care less about your esteem, you need to care less about their delusion