All people need, want and are entitled to friendship

The truth is, by nature people love people, it’s only when we hear something bad about another, which is why the Chofetz Chayim, an expert on Lahoin Hara teaches, we may not believe Lashoin Hara, anything bad we hear about another, as well as when we become angry or afraid, hence start thinking bad about others, either to justify revenge or dissociation hence future protection, that we need to instead forgive and love, for that is what all people need want and are entitled to!