All of us can consistently either be in love – as we have one heart which is like one direction / car (so though there may be many places we wish to go, at all times there is only one, as that desire is predominant) Now in love which is usually a generalized state to fulfill all of my loves, we can simultaneously be nice, a little selfish, a little into ego etc. – the second is the exact opposite, fear – in this state we cannot afford love – we are seeking security – we become tense, usually miserable, often angry hence jealous thereby malicious (basically the bully personality – and no one is born angry – it is a result of circumstance and hence reaction) but if we are so lucky, we overcome our anger as well as our instincts and we become God!