All of us are in one of four categories, or all four – the first and fundamental, as Abraham Maslow writes, is being a human – to be a human a person must have a sense of positive self-image (depression of-course is the person angry at themselves – a sense of shame ) the second is a person must have an ethical code (many people – such as the Arabs are only “ethical,” because of the fear of government – as we see in the breakdown of their governments, they are literally like rats (in terms of how they treat one another…) the third is a person must have a personal relationship with others, and the final is a person must (and this can only come through deep existential pain – hence seeking) develop relationship with God.