All of us are, and literally every one of us, because even though in a sense, we have all states, but there’s one state that dominates – so imagine you have four radios playing – it’s the one that is playing loudest that you will hear – so either we’re in a state of desire, which to be in that state, you also have to have subconscious safety – which means you don’t feel the state of fear, and fear creates panic, and panic overtakes the mind, and makes us well, panic… and we see the entire world as a dangerous place – all of our behavior is really about self-protection – generally speaking, because of the structure of the male and female brain, men tend towards the desire state, and women tend towards feeling anxious – of course, depending on circumstance, namely, innate safety – this will fluctuate