All of life is made up of factors, and if you understand the most important factors, then you know how to manage life so first and foremost the most important factor is to be positive, to believe Moshiach is coming, to believe that God is good and is looking to reward us for doing good – because a positive mind can think, second of all, we have to be active because all of life is the sequence of possibility + activity + God’s desire, creates redemption or the next blessing… number three, you can’t care about what shameful people humiliate and shame, firstly because they are only doing it because they have been and are jealous that others haven’t, because if you do care about it, that restricts your joy and ability to act