All of Kabbalah really teaches that we all are either in the trait of Abraham which is the natural tendency ( love- however as we see with his lack of discernment… for when in a state of love, the emotion controls and prevents objectivity as the saying "love is blind") however the exact opposite is Yitzchock, which is about fear and fear too lacks discernment for it places us in an all or nothing survivalistic mode- finally there is Torah reality, namely our job is not to judge but to both grow and give