All of Kabbalah boils down to the fact, if you unconditionally love yourself and you perceive yourself to be your body, therefore as love is the desire to do the desires of the person you desire, you will be addicted to instinctive fears and gratification; as opposed to, if you can disassociate with the filthy narcissism of your personal evil, then you can allow the only you that you love, to be the truest Divine you